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And by all means, please do not ever put her in a position whereby she needs to choose between you and her kids. Because she had spent nine months carrying her child, then delivered that child with considerable pain, and then she continued to spend years nursing that child through every wound, and scar. A valuable word of advice here, please do not ever refer to her kids as “baggage”.
Her kids are individuals she loves and cares about deeply. If you seriously want to date or have a relationship with a single mother, you have to understand how deeply she values her kids.
It all began when my daughter officially became a teenager, and told me “to go get a life and start having fun again”.
Do not BS her with the routine sweet nothings and cheap talk. They may seem vulnerable and emotional, but they remember what it was like to be “suffocated” in a terrible relationship/marriage, to have their hearts shred to pieces, and they do not EVER want to go through that EVER again.So, please do invest the time and effort in getting to know her as well as her kids. There could be some real changes to your lifestyle. Unless, if her EX is dead, lives in another country or has been completely estranged from her and the children.Because suddenly, you may find yourself visiting more playgrounds than clubs, or going to places which are only family friendly, and etc. Your usual activities will also change, perhaps even your car.Or, it is like what the dude below posted in his FB status.Most of the time, single mothers are labelled as “a truckload of baggage”.